Thank you for sharing this. It made me aware of your situation and helps me know and understand my friend better. Is there a way I can learn to recognize which personality you are in and how best to interact with you at that time? I’m not sure if this is similar to learning a person’s preferred pronouns, but I it is, I want to make that a part of showing you my respect and friendship
@AndersonArtwork generally you'll be talking to me (Lily) as the main 'host', occasionally Alice or Ellie might talk. Everyone is used to being referred to as Lily and will likely only introduce themselves or tell you who it is if you ask. Its ok to ask if you think you might be talking to one of the others instead of me though. ❤️
@AndersonArtwork Alice tends to speak very precisely, uses big words and is super intellectual, she's also autistic and has trouble with social cues. Ellie is younger, tends to be overtly hypersexual and super quick witted. Younger ones don't use sm stuff (occasionally the 8yo does but she's not supposed to unless its people we know and trust, she mostly sends pictures and emoji things).
Good info to have. I will do my best to adjust to them if I recognize them being on the surface ( or is the term something like active or operational?)
@AndersonArtwork usually 'hosting' or if there is more than one of us its co-conscious
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I will remember this and be respectful of the changes if I see them. I do not know when I may have interacted with Alice or Ellie but I have liked each of our interactions, so far. I am glad we are friends!