@Minholkin perhaps not gala, but I've always wanted to casually dress in a way that's like how bartenders look? White shirt, but with a vivid royal purple vest...but I am a really big guy and I lack the confidence to try the look without feeling like I'm looking like "that guy"

I'd love to give Shizou from Durarara vibes (pic attached), but not look like I would have a fedora and say "mi'lady" lol 😅😅