: all of those weird times when people get all flustered and aggressively shirty when you didn't know their entire personal, mental health, societal, cultural, subcultural, regional, economic, and political backgrounds and weren't extrovertedly angry/sad and outraged at the level they were about things you had no idea about them at all to begin with so they lump you in with Big Evil within moments of meeting you online or IRL
Those moments happen a lot and always have.