Today is veterans day, so I suggest listening to this song; Luang Prabang by Dave Van Ronk. I feel like it captures the essence of what it feels like to be a combat vet (at least one like me) when someone thanks you for your service. Its a complicated feeling, because it's done with the best intentions, but it leaves a hollow feeling inside, remembering the ones who dont make it home, and the platitudes we are told to fight and die for.
@DanIsWriting
Thankful for your survival. This was a very raw listen. It warrants listening.
What would be something more appropriate to say to you?
@DanIsWriting 🖤 know a few vets from nam to afghanistan. Thank you for your sacrifice seems better but not appropriate.
We have a strong vet community and support if you or someone you know needs it.
Shout to the void, it calls back.
This is a safe place and a healing place. Glad you are here.
@damselfly59 to be honest, I'm not sure. Hence why it feels strange when it happens.
In life, you would never know I was a veteran, thats how I like it. I lay low, under the radar, avoid talking about it. Social media is the only place I feel comfortable enough to say anything, because I can think about the conversation and reply when I'm ready.
Short answer is, there is no answer, but think about this song when you do, and what it means. Know that they might have a piece of them missing.