@Lulz4l1f3 And yet they just can’t figure out why church attendance is down. All that stuff was there when I was an evangelical fundamentalist Christian and yet I couldn’t see it. When I started seeing it I ignored it. What makes humans able to do that? I think in my case, I left my family to join up with the church. I turned my back on them for 5 years. Funny that I didn’t start to pull away from the church until my relationship with my family improved. I think that might be it.