Why the hell would you want to have sex with someone who wasn't into it anyway? Consent is the sexiest thing on the planet!
"i want to have wild monkey sex with you."
"Ok lets do it! Right here right now!"
What an ego boost right there! Amazing. You are so desirable to that person they are ready to go!Shit enthusiastic consent is my whole groove.
But what if they say no? Well then NO MEANS NO. Again, why the hell would you want to have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you?