After I got my new diagnostics I decided to never be quiet about who I was, cause I saw on both myself and others how much shame it brought that no one else was "weird". That got me into meeting so many fun people, people who would probably not relaxed around me if I didn't openly talk about disabilities like its nothing to be ashamed of. Truthfully I've had problems recently to keep that openess cause there's been many that assume things, which gets hurtful. But I'm gonna start over again 4/5