Its such a horrible gut-wrenching feeling when you see people that you thought were really close friends being vile and horrendous towards you and spreading lies because you wouldn't let them step over a boundary. The tendency to beat yourself up and question what you ever did wrong can be overwhelming. Some people are just hurt and doing anything they can to hurt someone else. :/ just, sucks.
@Zebrano very much. Our sin was having the audacity to say "i need to take a break for a few weeks" because of being unable to walk.