At the same time I'm stubborn and I don't usually make the first move. And I dunno if the role was reversed I'd make the first move either. That said most have accepted that branch . Had some discussions with some of them without being accusatory or placing blame. Just adult convos and putting the past away because. I have to admit, it feels pretty good and from that stand point, mentally, I feel a lot better. I'm not saying I'm still not miserable about things . But over all it does feel like