I’m so glad mom and I already were on the path to leave here. I’m terrified for people I love who are vulnerable and will be in harm’s way. All I can do for them is complete the move and be sure we have space for them to come stay with us if they can.
I know I did everything I possibly could to do my part. I have no “oh god, I should have done X, Y, Z.” No. I did everything I could given my circumstances. It just wasn’t enough to stop others from making a devastating choice out of stupidity or just plain evilness.