Twitter: "Oh you're going to bed? Here's a bunch of rainbow bridge posts so you feel bad and sleep like shit."
@ChillySnowgirl I feel that. I sent my brother a friend request on FB once, he never accepted it. Couple years later he died. Two years after that I got a notification that he accepted my friend request. Really messed me up for a bit.
I'm glad there's no algorithm here, just raw people being people. It's a good place to be. ❤️
@Tail i'm so sorry 😢
Algorithms suck so much. I can't imagine how unhappy we'd all be if we didn't have this place. ❤️
@ChillySnowgirl it certainly is a welcome respite. Looking forward to seeing how it grows. Lots of high quality folks here, I'm proud to be among them.
@Tail My fathers' passing was REALLY difficult for me (i still remember stuff about that night in very vivid detail) and for a few years after he died, facebook kept giving me "memory" posts related to that day, despite doing what i could to avoid getting them.
My advice--stay from places like the bird app when it's reminding you of the sad stuff. We have hugs and caring hearts here.❤️