@Museek It sounds like you're more suited for edibles, I'd seek sativa strands. Oils/vapes can be intense, those knock me too hard on my ass but it all depends. Main point is there can be a lot of variation... Personally I don't deal with sativa. But @Tail has a point regarding CBD, look into that perhaps.
Also, if you haven't already... perhaps discuss Marinol with your doc? That was approved way before common medical mj (the irony kills)