Oh I dunno about that. You just accurately described my ex husband. He’s the drunk driver in that situation. I only speak when I have something to say and once I’m done I go away. I do weird other men out too. They always ask me why they do all the talking and I don’t. I don’t talk because I’m listening. But I guess that wrong, too. Only one time did I ever meet someone who talked as little as I did. And it was great. We could sit near each other for hours and not say a thing. It was heaven.