Viktor Frankl, in his Logotherapy, argues that even the most profound suffering can have meaning and purpose. It is not for naught.
Grief, when navigated successfully, can lead to a deeper appreciation of life, creating moments of ecstatic realization of oneβs purpose or the beauty of existence.
It's there, if you look for it, according to Frankl.
@White_Rabbit but Buddhism is non dualistic. There can be no compassion without suffering. They inter are. Without mud there can be no lotus. There can be no flower without compost.