I’m older. Well, old. 😁
And I’m quite plain. On purpose. I don’t wear jewelry, or make-up or stylish trendy anything. Good boots, sweaters, flannel, tie my hair back like in avi. Very blah.
And still some old fart employee at my favorite little grocery store paid too much attention to me. Lol. Fuck that.
I just ordered a used $8 faux wedding band off eBay. Total was $11 😂
Oh hell yes. Camouflage.
@Anouk leverage this for a cause. If you watched Seinfeld, her’s a handy example: Elaine had a guy who’d fallen for her and she told him she could only be with a hero or something. The guy ends up being a harpoon shield for a whale in a Greenpeace boat or something, never to return. I may not be doing the storyline justice, but the gist is there. Tell the guy you could only love a fella who’d killed a bunch of neo-Nazis or whatever current topic suits you. Presto! Win win. 🤪