@Jax_Wild_4_Life
I hope she had a splendid day, and that you tell us all about it.
She looks great.
@dz thanks and I do too! God I hope she eats the food they give her; she's way too picky & that worries me
@Jax_Wild_4_Life @dz
Peer pressure of multiple kids eating happily…she will give it a shot
@Thumprhare tbh that's exactly what they said at the orientation meeting last week and I'm hoping it works because she's a stubborn girl like her mother (and not always for the right reasons, unfortunately) ... but by God I hope it works
It’s unlikely she will let herself go hungry when she realizes there is no food between meals and snacks…and you get what you get.
@Thumprhare that's what they say, but she definitely did not eat her snack nor her lunch. Although, at lunch time, she did try a baby carrot, but idk if she actually ate it or not lol
She won’t let herself starve…don’t worry. I mean there are the rare exceptions but day one —no worries.
I have seen kids refuse food all day and only eat at home but they were younger than 2 and still getting bottles.
You got this!
@Thumprhare @dz you make really good points. I guess her and I both are going through our learning curbs. She's my one & only, and so far, I'm hers... it can be tough at times, and worrisome, but I could be gentler with the both of us on this eating/not eating stuff.
The first one you want everything perfect—mine didn’t eat a fry until nearly 2 years old. Then standards fall as life happens and you see them thrive. The joke is by the third one—they are eating week old Cheerios off the floor and you are trying to figure out if you technically need to make them food.
We have a curtesy spoon rule in house. You have to try a spoon full of any and everything served. Sometimes it’s daunting but pairing new things with enjoyed things helps
@Jax_Wild_4_Life @dz remember ‘good enough’ is perfect. Now one thing I refuse to do is a separate meal and short order situation. The kids eat what is fixed. Period. But if I make something gross, I won’t make them eat it. I have found with my smallest who is the pickiest—when he helps make the food he loves whatever it is….example: his favorite vegetable is roasted Brussel sprouts. Lol. No one believes me until he pipes up.
@Thumprhare Smart kid on the sprouts!
@MisterE asparagus and Brussel sprouts…hated them growing up…turns out it’s all in the preparation! LOL AND fresh versus canned or frozen. Oh and they still like the normal pizza and ice cream too. 😜no pretend unicorn farts and butterflies only in this house. It’s loud and messy and I am not always calm. @Jax_Wild_4_Life @dz
@Thumprhare @Jax_Wild_4_Life @dz
Sounds fun! 😁
@Thumprhare Oh, that's great, if you have a good, exacting recipe. My Dad would have applauded your efforts as he was a baker by profession and a great cook to boot, as was my Mom a great cook.