All this bear vs man stuff going on is making me nervous 😑 As I've progressed on hrt, my sexual preferences has changed. I'm now attracted to men in addition to women. However with all the scary things I've seen women go through, it has me extremely nervous to even go on a date with a guy.

I also realize not all guys are like that but still until you REALLY get to know someone, how do you know they're safe? What if it's all an act to get me alone? It's mind numbing honestly 🤪 😱

@MarvelousMadi13 Agreed. *hug*

@Graci @MarvelousMadi13 It sucks and I wish you didn't have to worry about shit like that. As a male (no crazy, hopefully) I am ashamed of those that share my gender more often than not

@Razdawg22 @Graci it def is sad but it is nice to at least see some men, like yourself, actually understand and not try to argue with us about it!