That's the mystery with these, for sure!
There is a consistent problem-type involving one partner hating/dismissing what another partner does, but the danger of a problem being both common and outrageous is that we enter the uncanny valley of not being able to differentiate between a real example of said common issue, and someone faking a post within the theme just because it's *known* to be such good controversy fodder.
IOW: Who needs AI when we can't tell truth amongst ourselves? 🙃