**FeministWriter Lena Tasi** @[email protected] · Feb 28, 2023, 00:28

**FeministWriter Lena Tasi** @[email protected] · Feb 28, 2023, 00:28

FeministWriter Lena Tasi @[email protected]

OBSERVABLE SELF: “I think I’ll just let myself go full gray when it all comes in. Lots of women rock gray hair.”

AUTHENTIC SELF: A full head of gray hair? ALL of it? GREY MEANS / LOOKS OLD NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

**LindsayVotedKamala** @[email protected] · Feb 28, 2023, 00:33

**LindsayVotedKamala** @[email protected] · Feb 28, 2023, 00:33

LindsayVotedKamala @[email protected]

I am all white & steel gray. Hair almost to waist. I am routinely stopped by men (and women) who compliment my hair.

That never happened over the decades I spent a fortune coloring it. Never.

**FeministWriter Lena Tasi** @[email protected] · 2023-02-28T01:37:02Z

FeministWriter Lena Tasi @[email protected]

@LnzyHou I want to be comfortable with it. I really do. I see it on women and I like it. But it’s hard to imagine it on my own head.

**LindsayVotedKamala** @[email protected] · Feb 28, 2023, 02:10

**LindsayVotedKamala** @[email protected] · Feb 28, 2023, 02:10

LindsayVotedKamala @[email protected]

Here’s the good news. Grow it out. If you don’t like it, color it again.

We flatter ourselves to believe the whole world is watching what we do with our hair. They are too busy watching their phone.