Today I yeeted that "friend" who stopped taking my calls, stopped messaging me, but continued to re-post whatever came up in her doomscroll. My now ex-friend even "liked" one of my FB posts but could not be bothered to ask me if I was OK after I called her and left a message saying I needed someone to talk to. She reaped what she sowed. I won't miss her. Too bad, so sad for her. Next!
@ATXJane Thank you, and better friends since the one ex-friend I mentioned has been too lazy to bother with me. Idealize, devalue, then oops -- I discarded her before she had a chance. And if she sends me a lunacy letter, I'll just use it for story fodder like the others. I suspect now she's a covert narc, just wish I figured it out before.
@JeniRizio
Unnecessary drama rarely yields a healing result - for anyone.
I hope you find a therapist who is a really good fit!🌸