@Indefinite_Article re: adult siblings... me: WTF? Once you're adults who TF gets to order another sibling around? Or manipulate them into doing something.
Where's the WTF are you talking about button? LOL None of us tell anyone else what to do, how to do it, or when.
We generally live in the same hemisphere, but not always.
@Aranciata_rosa @Indefinite_Article call my mother was dying. I was a social worker with a thanatology focus. I ended up moving back home for a while because it made sense that everybody else lived somewhere else. After I moved overseas my brother became the caretaker of our father when he developed dementia, because that made sense. When our father died, her brother was the administrator of the estate because he was a CPA and it made sense. It seems we are very pragmatic people.