@bluesbaby Fair question. Growing up, the term was strictly derogatory. Over the years, I've watched our community reclaim it. In the end, I suppose it comes down to how I feel about who's using it and how it's being used.
Ok, so in general, no, it wouldn't be cool. I get that. Thanks for responding.
@JKMooney
I'm not clear if it's okay for heteros to use the term queer.