@AskTheDevil I'm an odd old broad. I believe in truth tempered with kindness.
I've been stupidly brave in the past to survive. I am too old now. I don't want to be brave anymore. I live and let live as a rule. Life is too short to fuss about the little stuff. I plan on staying relatively healthy and checking out at 80 in my sleep. Fundamental values, I protect what I can and would literally take a bullet for my guy.