Just watched a clip on friend types. It says there are two kinds of friends. One you tell your problems to and get empathy. One you tell your problems to and get solutions.
Which type are you? I think I am both. But it's gonna be empathy first for me.
@CinnamonGirlE It's wise, though a bit weird, to ask.
People share different things for different reasons, and we sort of have a sense of why. Sadly our sense doesn't always match the reasons the person has for sharing.
It's not always appropriate to ask (like a said, weird), but where it is, it'll likely improve the quality of the connection:
"I'm here for you. Just so I know, are you looking for emotional validation from me? Or are you looking to collaborate on a solution with me?"
@sumpnlikefaith
I realize many people would consider it strange. I guess I am just not one of them, lol.
And it is important to remember what I already know; not to expect people to necessarily do what I would.