I was thinking about something this morning. You know that trope where the husband is sweet/nice with contractors and construction guys and the wife is like bitchy? 1) it's basically real 2) I thought of why: I/many men have very few tools to use when having any kind of disagreement that doesn't escalate to a fight or conflict of some kind. So what is perceived as 'bitchy" is just, you know, a person saying "this isn't ok, fix it please"