@LiberalLibrarian beyond all else that's wrong with that, I don't understand the whole "real men hate their wives" bs. I married her because I was already not going anywhere and this way we got gifts and a cool trip. Like I like her? I like spending time with her? if hating wife is "alpha" then I'm cool with being a beta.
@Camerondotca Exactly. If I wanted to spend time with "the guys", I would have stayed single. Once you marry someone, that comes with certain expectations and obligations, whether straight or gay.
(Did take me a while to grok this. The fact that my missus stuck with me is testimony to her, not me.)
@LiberalLibrarian and, at the end of the day, when I want to go to a concert no one else wants to go to, I just grab my earplugs and bugger off on my own.