@MrsE0113 I'm not having a funeral and I wish for no memorial service. Makes it even easier.
In my will I asked my son to consider just scattering my ashes, then a few months later to have a luncheon with special invited guests only of his choosing.
A friend of mine did that and it was a really nice way to honor them in love rather than full of grief.
@Bliss I want something similar. @MrsE0113