@Capnmarrrrk Very sorry to hear of your news. People make choices and whatever financial hole she's in she's in even more now. Time to stay away if you can.
@Blackwolf
In this case, today I have to vent to strangers on the internet to off load dumping it all on my wife
@Blackwolf
Re staying away: My wife's partner has financial problems too, housing issues, sick parent issues, Trans issues (two trips to the ER because of it)
She's and I don't leave when shit goes wrong. We try to love and support as best we can