What's worse?
"Selfishly" taking care of yourself, at the accidental "expense" of others temporarily inconvenienced at the time without your knowledge?
Or hatred & overblown, irrational anger that lasts for days, weeks, months, or even years, & is exploded all over the "selfish" one for being SO selfish?
It is never selfish to take care of yourself.
@JoyfullyDazed Unless you have my brother & SIL.
I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I hope things get better soon. 💕