What's worse?
"Selfishly" taking care of yourself, at the accidental "expense" of others temporarily inconvenienced at the time without your knowledge?
Or hatred & overblown, irrational anger that lasts for days, weeks, months, or even years, & is exploded all over the "selfish" one for being SO selfish?
What's worse?
Taking care of oneself in a way some see as being incredibly selfish (like being a night owl who's slow to get ready for the day or soaking in a bath for 2 hours in the wee hours of the morning).
Or feeling hatred & anger towards that person by yelling, screaming, & calling that person names in such a way that you make that person feel like they shouldn't exist?
What’s worse?
Having someone in your life that elicits these feelings? Rid yourself of the abusive person. I did. Even though family.
@LnzyHou Yeah, that's about it
@LnzyHou If I could, I would
@Astartiel
You can stop talking/listening to them.