Did the thing, said the stuff.
Didn't go well.
But I woke up feeling surprisingly good. Like, if that bridge now gets burnt, at least the decision to burn it will be made with full knowledge of the facts. The actual burning is out of my hands, I feel I've done my part.
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Was slightly undermined by the fact I wrote it all out in notepad and then cut'n'pasted it into email without noticing all the weird line breaks that resulted, but still