New CoSoNauts coming in - Hello! I'm new, too. Only been here for a few days. I'd like to share some of what I've learned.
This is not #Twitter , which is probably why you're here. But, really... This. Is. Not. Twitter.
You can ask questions about things here. CoSoNauts are helpful. It's okay to be confused and need help. You won't be shamed for not understanding how everything works.
So, please, don't just give up and start insisting CoSo should work like something not CoSo.
You might be surprised how much Twitter stuff just processed as "how social media works". On CoSo, you don't have to word everything with a call to action at the end just to make sure somebody will see it.
Also, follower counts don't mean a lot here. Things work different, and community means more than "people using the same service". People actually act like a community here.
So you don't have to worry about getting your follower count up, promoting looking for followers, and your follower counts in other places won't matter much here.
CoSo had been around several years. A lot of us just didn't know about it. The last few days have been serious influx of new users and DoS atracks. It's not "new and unstable" or "hopefully going to be built up soon".
Also, because I've seen a lot of people ask about the star on posts over the past few days... Fun fact! The heart on #Twitter posts only became a heart a few years ago. It used to be a star.
Many who had been on Twitter for years by then felt it was a sign of "trying to be like (insert other popular platform)". Maybe, maybe not. But platforms develop their own culture, and changing to a heart did disrupt things.
Suddenly, posts that got "hearted" were seen as being liked, agreed with. The star had meant everything from, "Yes, I like and agree with this!" to, "I'm kind of bookmarking this so I can come back to it later."
Personally, I'm glad CoSo uses a star.
@ChillySnowgirl That was pretty much how it worked years ago on the bird app. Turned into a heart, and suddenly people were being scolded for hitting the heart on things nobody would have thought twice about hitting the star on.
@weirdfizz The heart was a poorly thought out idea. Especially if the topic being discussed was something grim, like a death (or whatever). Always seemed wrong "loving" those.
But now that i'm here i don't give a hoot. I started off spending a little time here and after a fave tv show ended (that i live tweeted during episodes) i switched and spent more time here. Noticed a long time ago that spending time there gets me angry, and i'm relaxed & happy here. It's a no brainer, ya know?
@ChillySnowgirl Yes, the vibe is so different here! I knew my anxiety was rising and I was becoming more protective about posts lately, but I didn't realize just how bad it had gotten until I came over here. I was so relaxed and felt so much safer after just one day! I have stress seizures, so "relaxed and safe" is very important for me.
@weirdfizz Oh wow, i'm sorry about the seizures, but really glad that you found this place. I've been here since the end of April, and anger & drama is rare here. As for the safe part, J does an excellent job of that for all of us. 🙂
@weirdfizz Here the star can mean one (or all) of the following:
~you post was seen
~i agree
~a "like"