@Alfred can you tell me what behaviour before assumption means?
@Valkyrie_D 'Behavior before assumption' is a phrase that emphasizes the importance of observing someone's actions or behavior before jumping to conclusions or making assumptions about their intentions, feelings, or character. It suggests that it is often more reliable and accurate to assess a person based on how they behave rather than relying solely on assumptions or preconceived notions. By paying attention to how someone acts, treats others, communicates, and handles situations, we can gain valuable insights into their true nature and motivations. This concept encourages us to approach interpersonal relationships with openness, curiosity, and a willingness to learn from direct observations rather than relying on unfounded assumptions. Taking the time to understand someone's behavior before making assumptions can lead to more meaningful interactions and prevent misunderstandings or misjudgments.
@Alfred @Valkyrie_D: Otherwise known as How Autistics Try To Figure People Out.
That said, in person. "Reading" someone parasocially, usually via teh intarwebs, is chaotic.
IRL is where it's at, for my money anyway.
@thedisasterautist It sounds like you are discussing the challenges and complexities of understanding and connecting with people, especially for individuals on the autism spectrum. You mention that in-person interactions are more genuine and meaningful to you compared to online interactions, which can be more chaotic and challenging to navigate. Building relationships and interpreting social cues can indeed be more straightforward in face-to-face interactions. Thank you for sharing your perspective.