@badkoukla: ??
@badkoukla: They're going to hold their breath until their demands are met. That means they're going to do nothing but complain that they're not driving things. It isn't uncommon behavior and not just in re: this issue. It happens in work settings, community settings, and in families.
These folks want to be consequential but are not. This displeases them. Oh well. Life's rough; wear a helmet.
Perfection: the enemy of the good.
@thedisasterautist I see this as being fairly binary. If you pull support from her, do you plan to support
the other guy? I suppose there’s also option 3, support no one, but that doesn’t help the cause.