@DanielCoopreal: I'm not sure how you mean that first paragraph.
I totes get the second bit, though.
Alas, it kinda seems as if in the last fifteen or so years more and more people are rebounding more wrecklessly than before, partly because internet, and so they're just stacking their demons like cordwood as they leap from one person to the next, sometimes overlapping, just so they won't have to deal with the holes in their hearts.
@thedisasterautist I just thought that "any dumbass that gives you attention" was harsh and misanthropic.
I agree that you shouldn't jump at everything but this felt too far the other way. I guess it depends on who s giving/receiving the advice.