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: I know I'm weird, but I have zero desire to need to pay my respects to anyone by going to their funeral and being sad I didn't have or make time for friends. I have absolutely no desire to be in a position to do that at all.
My preference is to pay my respects to them while they are alive, which means staying in touch or at least making the effort to. To me it's a matter of priorities. "Leave it all of the field," as they say.
@thedisasterautist Thats a great livelifenow lesson.
I go to those, but I never think it’s for the deceased (unless Im super connected to them personally) I go to support family members and friends who are grieving. I’ve gone to way too many for students, the though of their friends and family being without support of teachers just makes me shudder.