2/2: And no, it's inaccurate often that "Well, if they don't like it then it's their problem, not yours". That's because people can and will, if they are at all able, revenge themselves on you, usually socially but sometimes worse, and I have decades of experience with that. And it makes zero difference if they "evolve" and eventually apologize. There's not unhitting anyone ever, and there's no unstabbing people in the back or unthrowing them under the bus.
Gauge your audiences, folks.