: One lives and keeps on learning. Or at least keep being reminded. Socializing is often like wandering though a minefield you don't know you're wandering through.
You never know what buttons people have, and consequently you can't tell if you've pushed one until the bomb goes off.
It isn't villainy at all on anyone's part. It's just how things are and go is all.
This is still a hard part of #AspieLife for me, even at 52.
Some days being #actuallyautistic hits you in the face hard.