@Sleep_Is_For_Chumps if your husband feels that way it’s his hair shirt and right. He’s been there. His reaction. He’s not speaking. You are. All countries have blood on their hands. Their citizens, others, or both. Trying to qualify your remarks with second hand association to a veteran continues to demonstrate the weakness of your position, madam, and still demonstrates that both your first connection and your flame were off topic and inappropriate.