@desbearado @GaryWgll I don't think there is a one size fits all solution. The deluge of rightwing media is deeper than you ever see from outside of the bubble.
The only thing I have found that works with my family, that worked with me, is to begin humanizing people we hated or blamed.
Slip in mundane stories they can relate to, without any political slant, about people from different walks of life. Show them the personal struggles.
It's so difficult to be that, but it works. Even if slowly.
@desbearado It was my friends telling me stories about their gay friends; without focusing on anything about the gay part.
They knew they couldn't win me in an argument of the mind, so they won me by going after my heart... and that's how I started my road to changing my outlook and beliefs.
Once my heart was no longer in the hate machine, neither was my brain.
That's how you win.