"....the point is to water down the concept of rape culture until it's meaningless.
They want to start from the question, "is ____ rape?" so they can keep adding objections to the definition.
Start from "is there consent?" and their objections all fall away." - @MaxKennerly
@CaroG87 They choose not to understand because it makes them think of somebody other than themselves and their needs.
@ninjacooter how people don’t get this, I don’t know.