@meganpaasch Who better to teach him to cope adequately than someone who has had the same struggle?
You don't have to achieve neurotypical performance, just whatever method lets you both be 'good enough' to function in the world.
Did you see "Benny & June"? There's no particular reason that making grilled cheese sandwiches using a clothes iron is bad. It gets the job done just the same.

@DocLT2 Oddly, I haven't seen that yet. Not sure how I managed to go this long without doing so, but now it's definitely on my to watch list.

And exactly. The main thing is just...trying to keep up.