jfc... so when you finally learn to have confidence and set boundaries, its amazing how many people (going back over a decade or more) suddenly show their true colours.
"You have hurt us and you don't even care"
"I have not hurt you, you are choosing to be hurt"
when you point out that someone is being dismissive and disrespectful in a place you have created and that their actions have caused you pain... trying to convince someone that they are 'choosing to be hurt' is such sociopathic bs.
@stueytheround yeah, very much so. Its absolute bs and they have hurt a close friend of mine as well as us. Feel a burning rage of hellfire over it.
@lilyunsub Know what burns more than the rage of hellfire?
Righteous anger born of love!
Plus it's healthier ❤️
@stueytheround very much so, thats what I'm feeling atm because my friend is also in recovery from that kind of bs and she had a panic attack because of it. She deserves better. We all do.
Sorry to hear that, @lilyunsub 😦
@lilyunsub I love the nonpologies that basically go as such:
"I'm sorry you are so fragile that my perfectly normal-for-me behavior of screaming at everyone made you feel whiney."
@AskTheDevil ^^^ exactly!! It makes me always want to respond with "It's a shame that your balls found their way up to your throat from the energy of my foot but the pain you are feeling isn't of my doing, its merely the nerves that you're allowing to send the information to your brain, if you simply choose not to let them you wouldn't be keeled over. Mind over matter. Love and light."
@lilyunsub Fuck that noise! They need to learn to accept reponsibility for the consequences of their actions, intended or otherwise.
Sorry you're going through that.