Need advice.
Saw the husband of a friend having dinner with a woman. He saw us. There were other friends in the restaurant, so many people coming over to say hi to us. Not him. He thought we were saying hi at one point, but it was the friend behind him. Awkward.
He later left without acknowledging us
Do we inform his wife?
Was the woman not his girlfriend?
Are we not being good friends by not informing his wife?
@jurban No, you might be not being good friends because you assume he's cheating on his wife. ; )
Were they making out or flirting or something? It doesn't sound like you're terribly sure that was his mistress.
Him not acknowledging you is a little weird, but I can think of scenarios. Maybe a business/official dinner of some sort?
I mean, it's not a good look, but is what you saw damning enough to stick your nose in?
@AskTheDevil
But, if you were out having dinner with your "cousin" wouldn't you stop by to introduce her? He knows we saw him.
Plus, he's pretty odd
@jurban Depends on the cousin. Some of my family, I don't like to let them around nice people, because they come with attached drama.
I think if you have a concern, you should be direct and ask. If they're cheating or something, they'll almost certainly get nervous when you ask. And if it's something else, you won't have messed with someone's marriage and possibly your friend group.
@jurban I wouldn't necessarily jump to conclusions. But if you're concerned, maybe ask him. See how he responds.
I tend to be direct. It works more often than not.