Discussion this morning while walking with the wife:

How can Kamala get us to start talking to each other and stop hating.

My insight: After an election our ability to change things diminishes.

We need to focus on the things we can control.
We shouldn't get emotional about the things we don't control.
We can still fight-the-good-fight, but don't vilify your neighbor. Be civil.

Argue during the elections. That's the battleground.

Then go back to being neighbors.