Personal:

I have a close friend, an old stubborn vet. He is 82, and his wife is 80. His wife lost most of her eyesight to macular disintegration, and now is suffering from mild dementia. My friend also has some severe health issues. I found him a great home care aid, who comes 3 days a week. Recently he fell, again, busted him up pretty bad.

We need to get his wife into a permeant care facility. But he is not having it. It is not about money. It's about pride, and loss.

This be Hard.