🤔 the more I observe moms behaviors and thinking back on other times following counseling, and what my sister has shared with me on her end, it's no wonder my brain short circuited 4 years ago in combination with the death of my grandparents traumatic accident. Mom is racist, sexist, elitist, prejudiced, cynical, and a narcissist, but she words things in a way that most people think she's being nice to you.
When you have to change the fitted sheet on your bed cuz the puppy yakked and you open a drawer and mumble to yourself that's the flat sheet, open another drawer and discover the first drawer, in fact, held the fitted sheet, because that's how well you paid attention to the instructional video on YouTube. You fooled your damn self that you thought it was the flat sheet...
(3/3) -dad then talked to me yesterday and said they were fine financially saying my sister had asked since I had talked to my sister about the penny pinching (and yes I did ask) and I mentioned her depression
- I mentioned why are you guys always whispering when I'm not in the room? He said I could move out if I wanted, but I said financially it wasn't possible
Uuuuuggggghhhh.....what are thoughts????
(2/?) - asked my sister why the whispering then? She said that it was because mom was mad and she didn't want to hear us talking anymore. So I called her out and said I didn't believe her foster adoption stuff answer
-she then said they were talking about mom's face stuff (the cyst that she says is there that derm insists she sees psych) so she could hear, because she had closed the door to the room she was in
(1/?)Pretty sure I know the answer but I need some input:
I asked my dad and sister what they are talking about behind my back- I got 3 different answers. So I feel like there's some lies going on and I'm somewhere in the mix.
-asked my sister first what she was talking to dad about and I clearly heard "we will figure it out when we get there" and "hospital"
-my sister's response was "foster adoption stuff" which she and hubby are pursuing
I work in home care as a RN and play electric violin, mostly at church. Interest in cybersecurity and infosec. Deals with narcissistic family members.