One more…In my first things I like posts In didn’t cover the Octopus thing…For about 8 years now It’s been a running joke. We have always had multiple cats (only 3 currently, at one time we had 7). People tend to give us cat birthday cards like we are “cat ladies “and since we’re queer, many also featuring pussy jokes. I made a rule that they should up their game, and now friends are required to do Octopus cards instead of cats. One year my sister even sent me the movie Octopussy.