Researchers found that people who perform a random act of kindness tend to underestimate how much the recipient will appreciate it. And they believe that miscalculation could hold many of us back from doing nice things for others more often. https://www.nytimes.com/2022/09/02/well/family/random-acts-of-kindness.html
@estherschindler if you do shit expecting to receive appreciation, you're not being kind, you're being selfish
@estherschindler Always strive to be kind.
@estherschindler i don't even think about an act of kindness being appreciated . i just do it because everyone has burdens & if i can lift even a bit of one, that's the right thing to do