jfc... so when you finally learn to have confidence and set boundaries, its amazing how many people (going back over a decade or more) suddenly show their true colours.

"You have hurt us and you don't even care"

"I have not hurt you, you are choosing to be hurt"

when you point out that someone is being dismissive and disrespectful in a place you have created and that their actions have caused you pain... trying to convince someone that they are 'choosing to be hurt' is such sociopathic bs.